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My desert tradition is my happy place
The Power of Rhythm: How Tradition Builds the Health You Want

I donât like traditions - I find most of them stuffy - but I have one that is religiousâŠ
A religious tradition - those words often make us think of a church or mosque or temple. I have one of those in that vein of thinking - Sabbath - every Saturday I treat like a holiday. I unplug for the most part, we eat like itâs Thanksgiving, friends and family get together, if itâs good weather we are hiking or playing outside. If someone watched me every Saturday on mute and with no calendar around they would think I was celebrating Thanksgiving with the amount of food and people I surround myself with.
But thatâs not the one I was thinking of when I picked out the picture above. The one I was thinking about was my yearly tradition - 24 years running - of taking 5-6 days in the hot Arizona sun with temperatures around 115-120 degrees and playing golf - a lot of golf - 36 holes/day type golf for each of those days.
When at the dentist getting my teeth drilled or in moments of insane stress - I go in my mind to my happy place in North Scottsdale with views much like the image above on every. single. hole.
Iâm obsessed with the sunshine - I love the heat - I love the architecture - I love the wildlife - the flora - and yea to enjoy all of that, I swing a club around all day with some friends.
Like many traditions or habits - Iâm not sure that was the plan from day one - my sophomore year in college. But now I look forward to it the other 360 days/year.
How about you? Do you have any traditions? Ones you like? Ones you dislike?
As I get older, I find more and more - my body, my brain and my spirit - love routine and rhythm. There is some data to that idea.
The Power of Rhythm
In an era of biohacking and wearable tech (shout out to the new Whoop announced last week), itâs easy to forget a more ancientâand perhaps more powerfulâhealth practice: the quiet strength of rhythm. Daily, weekly, yearly rituals, repeated over time, become the habits that shape not just your day, but your health, relationships, and long-term vitality.
Research increasingly shows that consistent routines rooted in tradition can lower stress, enhance immunity, improve sleep, and support emotional stability[^1]. Whether itâs a morning walk, a family dinner, or a weekly Sabbath, practices repeated in rhythm create alignment across body, mind, and relationships.
Hereâs what the data shows:
Biological rhythms regulate everything. The bodyâs circadian system governs not just sleep, but hormone release, digestion, and cellular repair. Disruption increases the risk for heart disease, obesity, and mood disorders[^2].
Morning routines improve decision-making. People who follow consistent morning rituals tend to report better focus and productivity, likely because they reduce âdecision fatigueâ early in the day[^3].
Spiritual or reflective habits enhance emotional health. Daily or weekly practices like prayer, journaling, or gratitude rituals are linked with lower anxiety and improved coping mechanisms[^4].
Family rhythms foster relational health. Regular mealtimes, end-of-day check-ins, and unplugged weekends are associated with greater marital satisfaction and deeper parent-child bonds[^5].
Micro-traditions matter. Even brief, repeated habitsâlike drinking water first thing in the morning, or taking a short evening walkâcan anchor the nervous system and reduce inflammation[^6].
Integrating Rhythm into Your Life:
Choose one time of dayâmorning, midday, or eveningâand add one nourishing habit.
Keep it simple and sensory: light a candle, play calming music, or drink hot tea to engage the body.
Involve your spouse or family in one shared weekly rhythmâlike Friday night dinner or Sunday morning walks. May I suggest Sabbath đ
Revisit and adjust rhythms seasonally. What works in winter may shift in summer. The power is in the repetition, not the perfection.
Rhythm doesnât ask for everything. It asks for one thing: return. Daily, gently, consistently. In the end, who you are is shaped less by what you occasionally try and more by what you repeatedly do.
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References:
[^1]: Sweeny K., Carroll P. J., & Shepperd J. A. (2020). The role of routines in promoting psychological resilience. Current Opinion in Psychology, 35, 129â134.
[^2]: Walker, M. P. (2017). Why We Sleep. Scribner.
[^3]: Baumeister, R. F., & Tierney, J. (2011). Willpower: Rediscovering the Greatest Human Strength. Penguin Press.
[^4]: Koenig, H. G. (2012). Religion, spirituality, and health: The research and clinical implications. ISRN Psychiatry.
[^5]: Fiese, B. H., & Schwartz, M. (2008). Reclaiming the Family Table: Mealtimes and Child Health. Pediatrics, 122(Supplement 2), S277âS286.
[^6]: Chen, L. J., et al. (2021). Walking and inflammation: A randomized controlled trial. Brain, Behavior, and Immunity, 94, 236â243.